Intention Manifestation/Power Of Spoken Word

Every day I learn something new about life or business, I'm amazed at how little is taught in schools. Schools aren't bad places and I have nothing against them, but why was Chaucer force fed to me when I could have really used a book on positive mental attitude or the power of getting what you speak? I know that right off the bat there are people that immediately are tuning out, thinking to themselves, "That stuff doesn't work. That's just hocus pocus, foo-foo stuff." These are the first people to respond "not much" when you ask them "what's up?" or "what's going on?" and then complain about not being challenged enough and how their days sometimes drag. Your words are the architect of your future. If anything, there is proof of this in the negative sense. How many times do you hear someone say, "Forgive me, I'm horrible with names," and then have to ask you three more times what your name is? Do you really think superstar athletes like Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods got to where they are by telling themselves they can't make it and that it would be extremely tough to even try? Of course not.

In this vein, I have read a few books on this concept. Hung By The Tongue is brilliant in it's basic breakdown of how powerful your words are. It's a short, easy read and is pretty inexpensive. What You Say Is What You Get is a little thicker, still inexpensive, but even more detailed in how to control your speech. What To Say When You Talk To Yourself is even more vital if you ask me, as it gets into concepts such as positive confession cards and really delves into what spurns your actions and results in life. I find it hard to believe that someone who doesn't believe in speech controlling life reading that book and not seeing truth. Just get it, read it, and you'll understand (btw, I make nothing if you buy any of those books as this blog is not officially affiliated with Amazon, nor the authors in any way.)

I've been working on putting this concept into effect in everything I do. Whether it's how I greet people in the morning - "not much" has become "everything is going on!" My response to "how are you doing" has become, "Great!" or "Top of the world!" I have to tell you that just doing that makes me feel better about my day. When bad stuff happens (being positive doesn't mean that problems disappear,) I've been working on not overreacting and measuring my response before I just blurt out in anger. It's so easy to have something stupid happen and to stand there saying, "this sucks!" I've been using these methods to write positive confession cards and a personal mission statement. I went out and actually bought some 3X5 cards and a black Sharpie and started putting positive phrases on the cards. Things like, "Smile, it's free!" or "I can relate to anyone." I can pull these cards out at any time while I'm driving and remind myself that "Everything is going to be great" and that I can "Win Today" (two other cards I have.) My personal mission statement/full positive confession talks about where I'm going, what I'm accomplishing, and who I'm becoming. It speaks the type of people that will come into my life, the type of family I will have and the type of impact that I plan on having.

Over at one of my favorite personal development sites, I recently came across something that seemed very much like positive confession. In none of my limited travels had I read much about intention-manifestation, but after reading a little about it, it seems to simply be the secular way of saying the power of the spoken word. I even joined the $1M experiment. Why not? What's the worst that happens? I know, you thought I'd say the worst, but we're talking about speaking positive right? So I'll put it this way - it doesn't cost me anything to participate and has a tremendous upside.

Are you speaking positive in everything you do? Not to get to "astral-plane-hippiefied" for you, but we are creatures of energy and we do produce both positive and negative. What makes you words exempt from being a viable participant? Why would we think we can say negative things and somehow have it not affect us? I use to be very self-efacing. It's easy to make fun of yourself because you don't offend anyone, right? Wrong. You offend you, subconsciously. It's not geeky to tell yourself you're a good person. In fact, it's necessary. 70% of the words you hear come from your own mouth. Why not program it with positive?